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The Man I Love(1997)
Status: Released
Date: 1997-12-05
62%
35 Votes
Time: 1h 27m
Overview:
This is a combination coming out and first love story. The swimmer and diver Lucard is interested in attractive Martin. The film follows the characters' coming out with all its difficulties, the bitter-sweet pleasures of first love and the dreadful moment when one comes down to reality and realizes that one's beloved friend has a hard way to go yet. The positive message the film tries to transmit is the somewhat common motto "Live each day of your life as if it were your last."
Languages: French.
Countries:
France
ProductionCompanies: 
La Sept-Arte
Onya Film Production
Movie: The Man I Love
Top 10 Billed Cast
Jean-Michel Portal
Lucas
Marcial Di Fonzo Bo
Martin
Mathilde Seigner
Lise
Vittoria Scognamiglio
Rose
Jacques Hansen
Père de Lucas
Bernard Nissile
Millau
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