

The Object of My Affection(1998)
Sometimes The Most Desirable Relationship Is The One You Can't Have
A pregnant New York social worker begins to develop romantic feelings for her gay best friend, and decides she'd rather raise her child with him, much to the dismay of her overbearing boyfriend.

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The Object of My Affection
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A pregnant New York social worker begins to develop romantic feelings for her gay best friend, and decides she'd rather raise her child with him, much to the dismay of her overbearing boyfriend.
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1998-04-17
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Sometimes The Most Desirable Relationship Is The One You Can't Have
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